Impossible 2 Get

A few months ago, I had 1 date with a lier. He told me that he didn't have a girlfriend - turns out he did... So, of course he got the BIG A$$ brush off. I told him (before we went out - in the 6months that he wore me down) that I had no desire to the 'other woman'. I reiterated this, when I found out he did indeed have a girlfriend. So, why is he calling me?

I'm not sure what he wants.

I don't accept his phone calls but I'll admit to occasionally reading the texts that he sends

(I don't reply)

A few months ago, I told him, via text that he needed to stop contacting me.

• He said: I just want you friendship, your not mature enough to be my friend, if its not your way its no way?

• I said: Be friends with your girlfriend

He didn't like this much and stopped trying to contact me for a while..... until tonight. He sent a text.

*Sigh* People always want what they can't have. So I suppose now its the whole challenge thing. I suspects that he thinks I'm playing "Hard to Get" without understanding that for him, I'm not playing and I'm "Impossible to Get".

Married and Waiting

What is it with Marriage?!

I bumped into a colleague at the library last night 6 hours into a 10 hour study/work session
(yeah it's that deep)

He told me that he was considering spending the night in the library, as his train was going to stop running for the night

I offered to drive him home at midnight, if he wanted to get some more work done and he took me up it

A little while later he started telling me the why he was rebelling

• His wife was 'tripping'
• He couldn't wait to get 'rid of her' and be 'a free young man again'
• This was his second marriage, and he was silly to do it a 2nd time
• He'll be married two years this September (isn't he still a newlywed?)

But the icing on this very sad cake:

• If my wife locks me out.... where do YOU stay

I kept wondering - Does your Wife know all this or Maybe you should be talking to her or Do I really want to drive you home so she can see my car.........

My friend asked me if I thought he liked me - I told her that I was operating under a NO to that questions

I guess I have commitment issues - I can't even commit to a TV series (I started out watching Grey's Anatomy). Lets just say this kinda stuff isn't helping.